That's how you come across. You come across like you are forcing your beliefs on other people, and that is wrong. You are entitled to your beliefs, but you don't have the right to force them on other people. A lot of people have debated scripture with you. Many of them were other Christians. You argued with THEM, too. It seems to me that you believe in your ways, and to heck, with the beliefs of others. It doesn't matter if that person is also a born again Christian. If they don't believe exactly the same way you do, then, they are also wrong.
You really should go back and look at your bible a bit more. Jesus was more about love and compassion than he was retribution.