My best friend here, was asking me that. He knows all about my crush on Dani, and I talk to him a lot about Dani. Thank GOD I have that outlet. I also have a new person who I'm kinda friendly with. She is in the GSA here (as am I) and she is at least bi. I'm gonna see if I can't talk to her about my dilemmia. I also might be able to talk to an RD here who is a lesbian, and who I am somewhat friendly with.
I guess what's stopping me, is that I am TERRIFIED that Dani doesn't feel the same way about me. I mean we still live in a VERY homophobic society. If Dani was a guy or if I was a guy, I would tell her that I loved her and was sexually attracted to her. But this is a same sex thing!!!!! I also don't want to lose her friendship, which is something that I HIGHLY value! I'm so scared and confused!