Here we go again.
Here we go again.
In my opinion, some of Kalista's posts are similar to what it would be like if I periodically posted stories of some way in which a deaf person was harmed because they couldn't hear, in an effort to show how silly it is for anyone to not get implanted.
If I believed that, I suppose I have the right to post those stories here, but it doesn't exactly lead to intelligent discussion...it usually just leads to bickering.
I have nothing against topics being revisited, but Kalista has a record of trying to stir the pot with her posts. She's made it very obvious she's 100% against CI's and doesn't bother to do any homework before she makes a post. I mean - YOU of all people should understand that, jilio, being that you always request backup evidence and sources for claims that are made on this board. If she did she would know there's not a single case of somebody dying from a taser because they had a CI implant. However there ARE records of deaths with people with heart conditions, or even normal healthy people! (do a search for "taser" and "Vancouver Airport" for example.)
I actually had this discussion with my Audie and he told me that if I was ever tasered, the worst that could happen is the electric discharge could wipe the map on my processor. If that's an issue, then I suppose people with CI's should simply try to AVOID being in situations where they might get tasered. But then again - EVERYBODY, be they CI implanted or not, should also try to avoid being in situations where they might be tasered, if possible.
In my opinion, some of Kalista's posts are similar to what it would be like if I periodically posted stories of some way in which a deaf person was harmed because they couldn't hear, in an effort to show how silly it is for anyone to not get implanted.
If I believed that, I suppose I have the right to post those stories here, but it doesn't exactly lead to intelligent discussion...it usually just leads to bickering.
That, as well, has occurred on this forum. In fact, someone posted a while back (and it was a hearing parent with a child who was implanted with CI) a stroy of a deaf woman hit by a train as evidence that a CI would have allowed her to hear the train and thus saved her life.:roll:
Kalista posting her opinion regarding CI is part of the process of empowerment and self determination. If she feels that her needs, as a deaf person, are not best served by implantation,then she is the best person to make that determination for herself. Just as those who have decided that their needs are better served by implantation are the best determinants of their needs. Kalista is simply posting those concerns which are of value to her personally in determining the most effective way for her to live her life, just as others post other concerns that are of personal value to them.
And yet, she is belittled as if she was stupid or something. She is not bashing anyone in particular so what is the problem?
In my opinion, some of Kalista's posts are similar to what it would be like if I periodically posted stories of some way in which a deaf person was harmed because they couldn't hear, in an effort to show how silly it is for anyone to not get implanted.
If I believed that, I suppose I have the right to post those stories here, but it doesn't exactly lead to intelligent discussion...it usually just leads to bickering.
And yet, she is belittled as if she was stupid or something. She is not bashing anyone in particular so what is the problem?
So if a hearing person asks you "can the deaf drive cars?" wouldn't you feel the slightest hince of impatience and annoyance that the question was asked even though it wasn't personally directed at you? Be honest.
I have been asked that and I have said, yes deaf people can drive cars. I dont belittle them. I hold my feelings inside.