Communication diseaster

PowerWCRulez

PowerWCRulez

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Hi all,

I have been very frusturants with my new gf since 3 months now.

Communication hard for her (her disability is deaf and CP).
AIM communication looks like low learner of wrong spellings.
She still have "On and Off" for a loves.
Excessive "Busy" day.
Confusing in the messages.

My feeling make a heart strains, low depressions and sad.
 
What about using VP more often? Some people are not articulate with online communication. Using VP may clear up misunderstandings.

Dont get discouraged - keep working on the communication if she is very special to you *hugs*
 
Gemma said:
What about using VP more often? Some people are not articulate with online communication. Using VP may clear up misunderstandings.

Dont get discouraged - keep working on the communication if she is very special to you *hugs*
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She doesn't have a VP in her group home. (Severe disability behavior).
Oh, I forgot, she have a ADHD on her medication.
 
Do you see her often in person? Maybe hold all communication until talk in person?

Just trying to think of how you can improve communication with her :)
 
I'm sorry to hear that.. If I was you, I'd find someone who is more indepdent, able too communicate illigently. As for in relationship, gotta work when to see eachother. As I am sure you know I have boyfriend- we keep in contact via text and IM- we always communicate on where to meet and what to do. Communication is most important in a reelationship.
 
Need to find a way to have better communication with her that she is willing to use.

Should ask the home if they can set up a couple VPs. Or see if there is a grammer class they can set up for everyone there. I am sure there are other ppl there that have the same problem with her.

I just wondering, the home keeps her busy or does she keep her busy? That can also tell ya'll if she willing to improve the communication between you and her.

If she don't want to improve it, then maybe you should think about finding a new women that is more independent.
 
Hi all again,

Just updated: I asked her as friend for awhile, she accepted for a friend. Then have to find better gal for a communications and etc..

my mental status still "ok" and trying to break a depressions, I hopefully will find a better gal, some friends on chatroom and tagdeaf buddy doing looking and find a gal for me.
 
Wish you the best of luck and please dont rush it while you are in depressed. Take care.
 
Hello!

I want you to know that it is not that easy, but glad that you 2 are friends for now it is very hard ----- but keeping that positive to keep commuication with her and never know it wil happening..... :) it will come around.
 
racheleggert said:
. . . As I am sure you know I have boyfriend . . .
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Yes, Rachel, we know you have a boyfriend. :roll: I understand that the editors at the Minneapolis Star Tribune turned down covering the story, as they weren't sure what section to put it in! :D
 
PowerWCRulez said:
Hi all,

I have been very frusturants with my new gf since 3 months now.

Communication hard for her (her disability is deaf and CP).
AIM communication looks like low learner of wrong spellings.
She still have "On and Off" for a loves.
Excessive "Busy" day.
Confusing in the messages.

My feeling make a heart strains, low depressions and sad.
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Unless she has some amazing asset to make up for all of that, I think your best chance at happiness is letting her go.


diseaster? :lol:
 
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