Oh I don't do I? MY parents (and many other parents) went through the process of grieving/wishing their kids were healthy and normal.
Oral only really does capitalize on that grief. It's basic psychology! I have been to oral only conferences and interacted with parents who have chosen oral only.
Oral only REALLY does capitalize on that grief, and tells parents. "YES! Your kid can be "normal!" and function entirely in the mainstream!" Yes, there are some parents who chose oral as another skill/language but those parents tend to be in the minority. ( I do support those parents thou)
You just don't understand the psychcology that oral only advocates use. I know a lot of parents of post oral only kids (now adults) and they say that they should have gotten over the grieving for a "healthy normal" kid, and given their kid a full toolbox.(and MANY of those kids were oral sucesses
Yes, many of the parents who chose oral only feel like they are only trying to do the right thing for their kid......Their heart is in the right place. Oral skills are quite valueable, and as many dhh kids as possible should be able to develop them. But at the same time "alternative" " disabilty" methods and accomondations can be just as valueable and help kids too!
Jenny, thanks for the explanation. It still seems more like learnign how to accuratly pronounce a foriegn language word, rather then being helpful globally. It is reinforcing linguistic theroy, which is good. But the question is if that skill will be useful outside testing or/and in a global sittuion. That's all.
We'll see though.