I know, I think that I hit frustration overload after reading the days posts all in one shot. I do agree that there is a sense of invincibility when posting that you can't have in real life. You are right, most people are very nice and helpful and open in the real world, but, and maybe it is still insecurety and niavety in this new world, I worry that some of what these posts are saying is how they "really" feel, and that they might undermine my authority as a parent when interacting with my son. I need to get over that, obviously, and trust that their good intentions really are good intentions. Thanks!