Speaking for myself, the reason why I haven't posted is because posts like these are used as currency by people who are essentially against child implantation. I have watched how the discussion in this thread has unfolded and the parent has already been labelled a "child abuser", even though none of us here know him from a bar of soap and do not have access to all the facts of the case.
I disagree with the use of sad (and rare) stories like this in such a way on principle. It's cheap.