Jillio is kind of like a mother wolf. Even though I think I am older than her she reminds me of my parents.
Lots of parents of deaf people I think trying to make sure their kids don't have to be hurt anymore than necessary from the outside world.
As for Daredevel7, she is an aerospace engineer. She can tell you all about high acheiving deaf oralists. She knows all of us are wrong and is the true expert of deaf experience here.