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Most disney princess marry man that they juat met. And Elza from Frozen saya that in movie you cant marry a man you just met.
 
Dreamer03 said:
Most disney princess marry man that they juat met. And Elza from Frozen saya that in movie you cant marry a man you just met.
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That's true. If I ever met a woman who's the right match, I'd want to wait 2-3 years, to get to know that person well enough to know her likes and dislikes, and when the timing is right (With the father's blessing, of course) I would then do it.
 
Started dating in January, engaged in March, married in May--still happily married almost 40 years later. :)
 
ChicagoBlue2 said:
That's true. If I ever met a woman who's the right match, I'd want to wait 2-3 years, to get to know that person well enough to know her likes and dislikes, and when the timing is right (With the father's blessing, of course) I would then do it.
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Waiting 2-3 years does not guarantee a marriage will last.
 
I am guessing that when a woman first met a stranger and she happen to fall in love at first sight. Yeah, she can not married him after she met him right away. She need to know what kind of a man he is. Also get some information about him before marrying him. He might be controlling or a wife beater or an ax murderer. You don't want a life like that. Being married is not a bed of roses.

I met my husband (we did not fall in love at first sight) but we waited two years later to get married. We just like each other very much (feeling comfortable with each other) and then we love each other very much before marriage. We need to get to know each other. That is the most important thing.

I had been married to my husband for 15 years before he died. I miss him so much. :(
 
Bebonang said:
I am guessing that when a woman first met a stranger and she happen to fall in love at first sight. Yeah, she can not married him after she met him right away. She need to know what kind of a man he is. Also get some information about him before marrying him. He might be controlling or a wife beater or an ax murderer. You don't want a life like that. Being married is not a bed of roses.

I met my husband (we did not fall in love at first sight) but we waited two years later to get married. We just like each other very much (feeling comfortable with each other) and then we love each other very much before marriage. We need to get to know each other. That is the most important thing.

I had been married to my husband for 15 years before he died. I miss him so much. :(
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My wife and I were happy for 20 years. Then we met. - Rodney Dangerfield
 
Hey, I'm not opposed to believing love at first site, I think it exists. Just like some AD'ers above, they married very quickly and were very happy. :) They're very lucky. :) However, regardless if you get married the next weeks or months after meeting them or wait it out, it was going to fail or work out either way. Having a longer period of dating before getting married definitely doesn't change any of that. Either way, if someone wants to marry when they meet or wait, that's their choice and I wish them the best. :)
 
I probably wouldn't marry a person after a week or even a month of having met or dated them. But if it works for some people thats good.
 
My grandparent on my dad's side got married after WWII, she was 18 and he was 20. My mom's side, they met at a dance... married in 1944 when she was 21 and he was 26. Both grandparents were married 61 years before my grandmother passes away. Sometime love at first sight works for some people, some don't... perhaps it comes to chemistry. :)
 
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Thats similar to my grandparents on my dad's side too ... my grandmaw was 19 when they got married and he's a little older but not sure by how much ... She passed away Oct 15 last year and was 86 ... they had been married 67 years when she died ... my grandpaw hasn't been the same since ... any time her name comes up he automatically tears up ...
 
Bebonang said:
You always do that every time I mentioned about my husband before he passed away in other posts. I like your smilies. :)
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Your posts about him always touch my heart. :)
 
Calvin said:
My grandparent on my dad's side got married after WWII, she was 18 and he was 20. My mom's side, they met at a dance... married in 1944 when she was 21 and he was 26. Both grandparents were married 61 years before my grandmother passes away. Sometime love at first sight works for some people, some don't... perhaps it comes to chemistry. :)
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I had clients that where married 80 years. They both 100 yo . I thought that was amazing to be married that long. I think the husband was 101 yo. Whatever it's they sure had it.
 
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