Cancer Dad walks 11 yr old daughter down aisle

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Something I've never seen before and you might need a kleenex. Really sad but touching idea.

Cancer-Stricken Dad Walks 11-Year-Old Down The 'Aisle' Because He Won't Be There For The Real Thing

Josie Metz's father won't be there to walk her down the aisle on her wedding day. But thanks to California photographer Lindsey Villatoro, the 11-year-old was able to experience what it might be like anyway.

Her father, Jim, 62, had already been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer when he and his wife, Grace, hired Villatoro -- a mother, photographer and founder of Love Song Photography based in Menifee, Calif. Two years ago, Villatoro began offering photography sessions for terminal clients or clients with serious illnesses to document their journeys and was referred to the Metz family.

"I try to really showcase the person for who they are and not the illness," she told The Huffington Post during a phone conversation Tuesday afternoon.

Villatoro went to Jim and Grace's home for a shoot and offered to do one with their young daughter, Josie. After she left, she posted about the family on her website to get gift donations for the girl to help make her last birthday with her father a memorable one. But she decided to take the surprise one step further and dreamed up the idea of a wedding for the girl -- complete with flowers, desserts, a promise ring and a dress from L.A. Fashion Week -- so that her father could walk her down the aisle.

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"I met Josie [the day of the wedding]," Villatoro said. "She was a little bit overwhelmed when her mom picked her up from school and told her. She just needed a moment. Later, she said, 'This is the best day of my life.' She was very glad and excited to have these moments."

The wedding came together and Villatoro captured it on camera and created a video titled "Walk me down the Aisle Daddy."

The full meaning of the special day was felt by all. The story of the wedding went viral and was covered by local network KTLA as well as the Daily Mail.

"They want to get his story out, to let people know Jim and to feel a part of his family," Villatoro told HuffPost. "There is going to come a day very soon when he's not here. So for everyone to see those moments inside their family and connect with them is a really big thing for them. They feel very blessed ... The goal when I do these things is to preserve that person. Most people focus on the death and not the beauty of that person, who they were and the memories that they leave."

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Cancer-Stricken Dad Walks 11-Year-Old Down The 'Aisle' Because He Won't Be There For The Real Thing
 
It is heartbreaking. I am glad he got the wish just like the Wish Foundation to help people who were not able to survive long before they die. They get the wishes to have some happiness and enjoy what they want to have. Beautiful pictures and video. I am very impress with them (pictures and video). :(
 
another way to put, she's very lucky to have such a good dad with this bond which they want to see the day, while in reality he can't be there, but this 'makes up' my only worry for her, is she'd have to be sure and find the right one to share that moment - and the photos/video on her real wedding day....
it really put me in tears too, sweet and bitter, bittersweet? I am not sure if this is right word...the sweetness is they really want to be there in life, some fathers and daughters simply do not have this bond and they're still alive, so an unfair, strange world we live in...
 
What a special father he is. He is ten times more the father than many fathers out there who desert their kids.
 
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