ofc its their culture im not stupid, im saying in their culture they cant handle greif, and the 'worthless widow' is that 'social death', a nobody shunned from society. For each and every cultures we have what is permissionable and what is not, or more accurately; prohibitions and concessions. I still stand in my opinion, they cant handle grieve as it is not given any concessions in their culture. Having said this, I'm not going to pretend I like or 'understand' Indian culture - I don't. It is just the same way as western people dont like muslims and their fanatical culture, only difference is the media hasnt given 'concessions/permission' to dislike Indian culture, in other words its not a popular opinion, then again its not neccessary a wrong one.
