brother and sister...in love

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Okay, I am not exactly sure if this is the apporiate forum to start, so forgive me...okay anyway, I know this is a very unusual and strange topic, but hey, it's all due to my curiousty about love with brothers and sisters...

okay, years and years AND years ago, in such countries like Rome and Greek, brothers and sisters somehow fall in love for eachother and they get married and start a family...etc if they never find the right person in their lives, then I guess they decided to marry eachother anyway, since they do love eachother after all...even though they do share the same blood from the same family and all...

Today, it is EXTREMELY rare that this kind of relationship with brother and sister fall in love for eachother but instead they feel it's 100 perfect normal and healthy to be with an entirely different person who isn't even blood related to you...which they think is REAL love, anyway.

But...love isn't a bad thing, right? as you have the right to love somone, and some ppl feel disgusted or uncomfortable of knowing who you love, it's none of their business because it's YOUR business and YOUR life and YOUR right to love anyone you want...even if it's your sibling.

and no, I didnt even fell in love with my sister :ugh: but I'm sure it still does happen to afew people around the world...falling in love with a different gender of the same family...

But get this...would it make any difference if you marry somone who is ADOPTED, actually...not that she or he would be blood related, right? would it count as "normal"? as you married your adopted sister or brother? proably not.

love is a strong word...and a good feeling because you get to spend the rest of your life with someone who is close to you and understand your feelings, your desires, and your loss, etc...stuff like that. even if it comes to love your sister or brother, as you get to stay close for the rest of your lives and you feel that you are so connected to her/him that you never want to be apart so you marry her/him because you love him... I mean, love is a good thing, but why wouldn't not be a good thing when you marry someone who is blood-related, or adopted, or even the same gender and so many ppl would call it disgusting and sick? I mean, why? as Love is a good thing and never destory anything, does it? I dunno...that's when I ask for your opinon about this.

Love is a wonderful thing to everybody, but why would they think it's disgusting when they find ppl loving another relative or adopted relative, or even the same gender? it looks like they are trying to change the true meaning of love into a different generation of love than it was long ago...

so, I don't care if you think that I'm weird or anything :roll: because I'm always that way so I just like to hear your opinon about this...is it or is it NOT wrong to love your relative that way?
 
Falling in love with a sibling and then get married. Producing babies may be a problem. :ugh: I do not know if it's true, but I have read somewhere in the doctor clinic that if a couple in the same blood group produce a baby, the baby may have a bigger chance to become deformed. No offenses. :ugh:
 
ChelEler said:
Falling in love with a sibling and then get married. Producing babies may be a problem. :ugh: I do not know if it's true, but I have read somewhere in the doctor clinic that if a couple in the same blood group produce a baby, the baby may have a bigger chance to become deformed. No offenses. :ugh:
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That may be a possiblity. getting the genes from two people who share the same genes would get the baby messed up or something like that
 
Yeah, but I got a question.... Adam and Eve produced many children, and those children married to each other and made babies... they grew up fine. Strange, eh?
 
ChelEler said:
Yeah, but I got a question.... Adam and Eve produced many children, and those children married to each other and made babies... they grew up fine. Strange, eh?
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I never knew that they produced babies together but I'm not even sure if they are blood related? eh whatever...if they are and their children are fine, then it just happens to be a myth, no offense.
 
If they didn't make any children, we wouldn't be here. Cheri, can you help me with this? :ily: :D
 
ChelEler said:
Yeah, but I got a question.... Adam and Eve produced many children, and those children married to each other and made babies... they grew up fine. Strange, eh?
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yup, and nobody ever explain that. :crazy:
 
i think ive heard similar story from long long time ago, someone saw a talk show about a couple who had two kids. they met in college and later on when they were engaged they met their parents. they found out their parents divorced and took each child with them. turned out theyre realy brother and sister but they were really in love with each other and still together. i dont know about their kids. lol

i kinda saw these people in real life. my friend's neighbors are married cousins. they had two grown-messed up in head- children. i think i remember one of them is schizophrenic and another has multi-personality disorder.
 
To me, it's called "incest". Incest is unhealthy relationship.
 
One of my friends for some reason is fascinated by the topic of incest.
I find it incredibly nasty...simply b/c a psycologically healthy person would not be sexually attracted to their immediate family members. It did happen in days of old (among royalty) but that's b/c they wanted to preserve blueblood.That's how come royal families had lots of genetic problems like hemophilla. Matter of fact I think that Usher's Syndrome is a disorder which can be caused by intermarriage. I'm a little more openminded about cousin-cousin incest...back a hundred years ago almost everyone married their cousins. Besides, with all the fablous people out there to date and have sex with ....why have sex with people who are related to you?
 
ChelEler said:
Falling in love with a sibling and then get married. Producing babies may be a problem. :ugh: I do not know if it's true, but I have read somewhere in the doctor clinic that if a couple in the same blood group produce a baby, the baby may have a bigger chance to become deformed. No offenses. :ugh:
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You're right about that. Producing babies within generations causes deformalities due to DNA conflicts. DNAs from different blood can merge and create new DNA. However, DNAs from same blood can cause conflicts and problems... producing "fucked up kids". :crazy:
 
I thought it is against the law to marry your own brother/sister/cousin etc. and yes it is called incest...geez! thats totally sick to me! Yeah, i have heard that if they marry and have children, then the children would be retarded or something..im sorry to say this but it is a disgusting topic to discuss in my opinion!
 
I hear that in some states, they can allow you to marry your cousin :dunno:

no joke but proably doesn't happen that much anyway
 
unless very very very far far cousin.. Is okay but still in "relatives".

I disagree with it.

Espically One of my oldest friend (long lost friend) who coming from Gatineau, Quebec and who has very ill several times because of his parent are Bro/Sister married and got one child son. He is Deaf and poorly health several times problem due of DNA. He is very survouir until now.. I have no idea about him still may be alive or passed away. Which I have not hear him long ages.. One day, I will try ask my friend who live in Ottawa, Ontario and if still he alive or passed away whatever...

Isn't fun for being marry in siblings affect problem lead into problem child's health future. Don't give a child innocent grown up diffculities health and will find out about their parent really are "sis/bro".
 
No i am not crazy about the same blood people to feel in love to each other. Like CyberRed mentioned about the incest. I agree with her that incest is a not healthy. IMO
BUT I do respect people who are in their old times which is ok but not in 2004. No way.. Because there are PLENTY of GOOD PEOPLE on the earth such school, organziation, churchs, and more that they can meet..

BTW, My good friend's parents were Uncle and Niece to each other. They are still married. They are in late 60 and 80's. THey do look like. WOW!
 
Frisky Feline said:
No i am not crazy about the same blood people to feel in love to each other. Like CyberRed mentioned about the incest. I agree with her that incest is a not healthy. IMO
BUT I do respect people who are in their old times which is ok but not in 2004. No way.. Because there are PLENTY of GOOD PEOPLE on the earth such school, organziation, churchs, and more that they can meet..

BTW, My good friend's parents were Uncle and Niece to each other. They are still married. They are in late 60 and 80's. THey do look like. WOW!
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since they have the same genes, (part of it for eachother) does your friend have any genetic or health problems? just wondering
 
it's okay to have sex, but it's not ok to have child?
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Steel said:
since they have the same genes, (part of it for eachother) does your friend have any genetic or health problems? just wondering
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She has older brother who is healthy. BUt they tried for the second baby but they lost baby then they had been struggling for third which is my friend. my friend is deaf. Her brother is 14 years older than my friend. Her parents don't know if it's relating with the same "bad" gene that caused her deafness. Her mom had bad doctor becasue her water was broken one month before and told doctor that she broke her water during 8 months of her pregnancy. Dr told her to hold it till one more month. POOR her becasue her mom suffered and was in a great pain for one month without water while my friend was in it. It's so miracle that my friend is very much alive!!! Either that bad gene or broke water caused her deafness. BUT my friend did not take any exam about deafness history in her relatives.
 
Interesting thread... Oh no, it´s not werid question... It´s okay if you ask anything whatever you like or image.... ;)

Yeah, it´s illegal to marry one of your relatives. It make me sick to think how could I sex with my own brother..... :shock:

My schoolmate Liz´s parents are both cousin & married to produce normal child. Liz said it´s nothing do with her deafness but due rubella.

My co-worker was pregnant at that time. The doctor discovered through blood test that her hubby´s blood group is the same as her which it´s no good for baby so she was given an injection (I can´t remember which names) each week. What a odd because they are not related each other. I´m sure it´s something do with “anti-body”. I´ll ask her when I see her. In the moment she´s still in mother care up to 2006.

Look the example of Allen Woody. He married his adopt daughter & have a child with her whom he & Mia adopted her as baby... :crazy: (I never like Allen Woody).
 
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