Gee, I wonder how many straight women out there have guys continue to hit on them after they've made it clear they weren't interested? Maybe if more guys out there would think how they'd feel if a gay guy continued hitting on them after they said "Not interested", we'd have less date rape, etc.
HS, you might want to re-think the whole violence/bashing thing. Typically, anytime someone who's bashed a gay person uses the whole "gay panic defense" (ie, "Your Honor, he was hitting on me, and it made me uncomfortable, so I beat the shit out of him, and um... golly, it went too far, and now he's dead"), it doesn't typically hold much water in the court system.
Violence is seldom the best policy. I know you're in the military, and there's a certain culture of violence that you live in every day... but there is such a thing as going too far.
