Sorry Foxtrac, It sucks big when that happened. You're not alone among those who were scammed. We know how you feel..
I know sometime it may seem real but later it turn out to be a scammer. Usually, I checks to be sure that it's in USA. If I buy anything coming from another Countries, I digs in deeper to find out about Seller's ratings and products. If I sell things to buyer, I make sure that they have their own Pay Pal account and send it once money been deposited by their Pay Pal and I wait about couple days before I mails it out regardless where they live in or out of USA... I know it can be risky. I would never pay if they ask for Credit Card information. Pay Pal would never reveal anyone's CC number and code ect.. It just transfer funds automatically once you click. If Seller ask you for CC information ect. I would never attempt to provide it. I would just report it to PayPal and Ebay about fraud and move on to next Seller.
I encountered many "fake" buyer trying to trick me into accepting their offer to bypass Ebay bidding and want me sell them directly (some offer me $1,500 and other offer me $5,000 for my item
). I got sooo
because they bid and won it then twisted things around by telling me that they don't have Pay Pal account or saying "My daughter blah blah" which are common Nigerian scam. I usually wait few days before I replied acting like I was very busy Seller.. (Many buyers had only one or two bids on their ratings) The buyer then the next day disappeared from Ebay. Ebay notified me that it was a scammer. I knew it!! I had to change the setting on Ebay Seller requirement by forcing Buyers that have more than 10 winning bids or more. It didn't work that well. One woman acting like scammer and she bidded and won my item then sent me Email of Nigerian Scam. I was soooooo
and sent her mean and threatening Email. Few days later She changed the topic and said she is still wanting to buy. I told her Pay Pal REQUIRED!!! I was about to repost bid but she insist she want to pay for items. I asked her why did she sent me Nigerian Scam email the first place!!! She apologized and she paid me $$$'s through PayPal and I sent her item just FEW DAYS after money been deposited. I was making sure that she don't retract it. After she received my item, she thanked me kindly and gave me good rating :roll:
That gave me hairy reception about scammers!! I felt like I want to go out and beat them up and make them pay for my item that they won on Ebay PLUS 100% interest for my
aggravated feeling and gas !!
Catty