They weren't abused or told it was dirty, anymore often than anyone else. And how can you not enjoy making love? Well, judging from your SN, you're a lesbian.... how would you like having sex with a man? It would probably be boring since you wouldn't be turned on. It's the same for asexuals, except it applies to both sexes. There are, however, some asexuals who do enjoy sex, but are just not sexually attracted to anyone.
