Wokamuka
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Further proves my point that a guy (or girl) can easily pull off the straight facade and still be homosexual.
All you need is a fake boyfriend/girlfriend (or in this case be married).
I think alot of it has do with a person's upbringing where homosexuality was something to be ashamed of, and when one has these homosexual feelings for the same sex, they hide those feelings inside, and too ashamed to come out.
It can drive a person mad, causing depression, drug and alcohol abuse and whatnot. Sometimes even suicide.
Its not to say that a homosexual can't fall in love with someone of the opposite sex, because it becomes a really close bond of friendship and it can be mistaken for something else.
Look at Darren Hayes, he's had a wife and a husband. He still cares deeply for his ex-wife because they still have that close bond as friends and because he still respects her. But he knows he's found a partner in Richard Cullen.
The way I see Darren is that he would be the perfect man for nearly every woman, but he knows he can't live his life with a lie.
I feel bad that Troy King was outted this way, but he's going to have to deal with the outfall from his relationship with his wife, the media, but ultimately his own feelings and his spiritual direction.
All you need is a fake boyfriend/girlfriend (or in this case be married).
I think alot of it has do with a person's upbringing where homosexuality was something to be ashamed of, and when one has these homosexual feelings for the same sex, they hide those feelings inside, and too ashamed to come out.
It can drive a person mad, causing depression, drug and alcohol abuse and whatnot. Sometimes even suicide.
Its not to say that a homosexual can't fall in love with someone of the opposite sex, because it becomes a really close bond of friendship and it can be mistaken for something else.
Look at Darren Hayes, he's had a wife and a husband. He still cares deeply for his ex-wife because they still have that close bond as friends and because he still respects her. But he knows he's found a partner in Richard Cullen.
The way I see Darren is that he would be the perfect man for nearly every woman, but he knows he can't live his life with a lie.
I feel bad that Troy King was outted this way, but he's going to have to deal with the outfall from his relationship with his wife, the media, but ultimately his own feelings and his spiritual direction.