I agree too!
I find it annoying when they use their pagers all the time.
I have no problem when they use it from time to time such as to see if they have email or to send email. However, I don't like it when they overdo it.
Here are some annoying situations I've had to deal with before...
- While we're in the middle of a conversation, they use their pagers. (This is called 'interrupting'.)
- They use their pagers the whole time, while everyone else is socializing. (What are you doing at the party in the first place?)
- They leave their pager right in front of them while they're eating and keep looking at it every minute. (We're eating, put it away. It's like talking with your mouth full.)
If I was at a social event and I was expecting an important email, then I would check my pager only to see if I got an emergency message... else I put it back down. For instance, suppose I have a pregnant wife with health concerns... I would need to be easily contacted by her. So, if I'm talking to someone and I feel my pager vibrate... I can simply look at my pager to see who paged me. If it's not my wife, I put it away. If it is my wife, then I will tell my friend that it's my pregnant wife that could be an emergency.
Some people will talk, then look at their pager to see who paged them... then reply to every one of them. Ugh!