No, it´s not physcially but physchological emotion. The therapy said that it´s sexual abusement what step dad did to us & also abused our emotion
physchologically... He didn´t touch us but just force us take off our clothes for him to look & play himself is or watch him have sex with my mum belong to sexual abusement. I´m surprise about this because I thought who touch the children belong sexual abusement. But I can image it would be worst when the children had been touched by their relatives... I often read about their stories... terrible... I know how they feel - they need real help to get out of physical emotion.
I visited Self-help group therapy at years ago. They give me the strength to positive my life where I´m now. I have everything what I have now - happy
married & proud mother of 2 darling sons, good job, house, etc look at Bullymom, Angel & tweenty... They are happy what they have their lovely partners who take care of them & keep them happy. I´m happy for them. The therapy said it´s not easy to forget the experience in the past because the scar still there.. I do think about this sometimes when I´m alone.
They said it´s good when I talk with someone who had bad experience like me... or write a paper to get out of chest or throw the pillows or boxer
etc. I often did it with my sons... We throw each other with pillow... real fun... it´s good for us to get out of aggressive emotion... I join this thread voluntary to write out everything... That´s how I learn from therápy.
I´m here to help the children who get out of their parents´s abusive relationship hardly like what I did my 7 years old sister. (she´s 20 years old now) because I myself as child fought to get out of those situation. I admire Bullymom & Angel what they knew what they did right for their children´s sake to get out of abusive relationship.
Y, I hope you don´t mind me to ask/suggest you. It would be good when you get out of your chest but you don´t have to put on this thread if you still don´t want. We understand & respect you but you can do something like that, write a paper yourself to get out of your chest. Did you visit therapy?
I´m here to listen/share your stories... What I am here for... 
