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I need advice here from anyone who is open minded, perhaps has experienced a relationship like the one I currently have. I am involved in a younger man/older woman relationship. She is 18 years older than I (Not old, mind you), is great at times, and is usually aware of my deaf/CI situation. The kicker is, she is still married but separated (Met on a fling), and she can out drink what I think is too much for a woman. She's beautiful and kind, but can be the devil and emotionally unstable. Almost like Jeckyl and Hyde. So, would you suggest I look elsewhere, or try to save the relationship?
 
wow, so young wife and yet separated. Poor her, she need better man to give more heart. Awwww. I dunno, be nice more, she would like to be with someone who treat better.
 
Well my opinion, as long as she took care of herself and don't cause much of problem with the drinking, then I don't see any wrong about it?
 
Wait until she is divorced. Then you have a chance. Otherwise, this affair isn't good for anyone all around. To me it sounds like she's in pain and is trying to hide it through flings and drinking. If you really care about her, see if she needs to seek help.
 
deafbajagal said:
Wait until she is divorced. Then you have a chance. Otherwise, this affair isn't good for anyone all around. To me it sounds like she's in pain and is trying to hide it through flings and drinking. If you really care about her, see if she needs to seek help.
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Baja is right - this lady is in clear need of emotional healing.
 
Thanks for the insight, I've decided to hold on to her and see if I can help her without making it a direct issue.
 
Gemma said:
Baja is right - this lady is in clear need of emotional healing.
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I must agree. At a young age patience is very hard to have. But speaking from more experience, do help her find herself if you can, but don't lose your heart yet. She has to love herself before she can really love anybody else.. Let her heal for a while.

As far as older woman younger guy, I would say that is totally acceptable and from what I hear usually a happy relationship..

Good luck Bro... Will be thinkin of ya in my prayers.. and her.
 
Separated is not the same as divorced, so I would not recommend dating her.
 
mostly singles girls always dating rightful man who know each other for longtimes.

im been dating previous boyfriend till im current dating with my James our boyfriend who lives in London,England but im dating older guys in 30's or less 30's in my close ages but James is close my ages.But i never been married but i would love get married somedays.

mostly girls or women who been got divorces for good excuse as personal reason!
 
Since you mentioned the woman has jerkyl and hyde personality, then forget about her. Find someone else better. It is up to u.
 
I would look for other woman elsewhere. She is not worth to stay with as she is still attached and is going thru emotional problems. She is probably on the rebound too as others pointed out.

You are better off without her. Seek another. :)

Good Luck. :)
 
It best to find someone single like yourself, dating a marriage woman is not good way to start, becasue it's BAD KARMA to mess with someone already involved or married to another person! You can do better. I am sure there someone out for you whom is single like you.
 
Run like the wind.. Run while you can... I say that partially as a joke but also partially in seriousness. If she is not yet divorced there is always a chance she will go back to hubby especially if there are children involved. And even if she doesn't, you might just be the rebound relationship... Guard your heart my friend and good luck!!!
 
I would be cautious about her.

First of all, if a woman is still married and still willing to date you at the same time... then that goes to show that she is likely to do it again with you and another man.
 
Advice is not to mess with people's marriage. I suggest you to find someone else somwhere. Dump her and tell her to deal with her marriage problems.














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hhhmmm.... sounds like a lot of emotional baggage. I vote to ditch her. So the reason you're interested in dating her and willing to go thru drama roller coaster because of her beauty? :naughty:
 
Not worth it... if she is more likely to cheat on her husband, whom she made a commitment with, is more likely to cheat on you too.

Don't be a marriage breaker,knowing fully well that she is married, and cause her to commit adultery.
 
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