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Awauphi

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Is seduction a science.... or an art?


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Hi;

Well look at it this way? What would happen if we all fancied the same person...

There must be some subtle art to seduction because sometimes it happens without us even realising? But I am sure there are some that can home in on the "art"!
 
It's a natural part of life.. there's no real science or art to it... It's simply making a certain person desire you, and that is easy to do if you like or love the person.
 
VamPyroX said:
Could you define "seduction"?
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Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing another person into an act. The word can have a negative connotation, either seriously or mildly (and also used jokingly), and may refer to an act that the other may later regret and/or would normally not want to do.

Seduction most commonly refers to the use of sexual desire in order to persuade someone to change their behavior to meet the desires of the seducer

It is usually implied that the seducer is acting out of a motive other than love for the seducee, and that the object of the seduction would not ordinarily have engaged in such behavior

There are many strategies that can be used for seduction, depending on sex, personality and circumstances. Many social behavior theorists classify seduction as a specialized form of persuasion. Seduction can also be viewed as a form of power that relies on psychological mastery rather than the use of coercive power, money, or intellectual appeals."

Hope this helps. ha.. :)
 
The faculty of art of seduction ! Tips for tricks :lol:

I haven't finished the faculty yet . ha ha :giggle:
 
Yes BearBeauty that I agree with. Really though, "Love" is a small word. But with so much meaning to it in so many different ways. It all depends on the person themselves. But still will always have so many questions to it & not enough answers for many people. Those who think they do, don't always. Many may never know the true meaning of "Love" It's a very very powerful word!! It's viewed, used, & even abused in so many different ways possible. So no, there is no real science or art to it. Love is what you make it:)



BearBeauty said:
It's a natural part of life.. there's no real science or art to it... It's simply making a certain person desire you, and that is easy to do if you like or love the person.
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yeah JLF.. Love have many meanings.. but from what i understand .. it is viewed by devotion and action by a person or something that person do for you. like when you are going thru bad times.. he/she will be there for you no matter what.. and will stick by you and get thru with you.. not many would do?? when they left.. that is not love.... mean they didnt want to go thru all the troubles and being there for you .. too much hassles for them? Love and seduction are two different meanings. as for seduction.. it is the use of sexual desire for other person to get them drawn in their web and do it with them.
 
JLFWildKat said:
Yes BearBeauty that I agree with. Really though, "Love" is a small word. But with so much meaning to it in so many different ways. It all depends on the person themselves. But still will always have so many questions to it & not enough answers for many people. Those who think they do, don't always. Many may never know the true meaning of "Love" It's a very very powerful word!! It's viewed, used, & even abused in so many different ways possible. So no, there is no real science or art to it. Love is what you make it:)
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Well said! ;)
 
Your very right on all that Gingerbread!! When people say for better or for worse. The don't know &/or understand the true meaning of that. like you said..."like when you are going thru bad times.. he/she will be there for you no matter what.. and will stick by you and get thru with you." But that includes "For Better Or For Worse" Some say they lied when they said that? But why if your truly in "Love"? Then again do they really know what love means? Or is it just infatuation aka puppy love. When ya asked ."too much hassles for them?" Well some, well allot of people can't handle it a few times, allot of times, all the time, etc..So for allot of people, that really look at love just to have someone. But really caught up in seduction. Mostly because for their sexual needs, well not needs, more like "Wants" for allot of people. Or just don't want to be alone & no time to heal if they actually loved that other person. Or some just don't care & say they love the person to just to want to have sex & that's all from one man/woman to another. Sex is not love to me. Making Love when your in love is what "Love" really is. It's so different & means so much more when your "Heart" really is in love & out for that significant other you are making love to. People need to realize & understand more about a devotion of a man/woman. The action yes that person takes in the relationship means so much to the other & a whole lot more if that person is willing to put it all out for that loved one no matter what. Still so many meanings, understandings, misunderstandings on love some people will never know &/or realize what the true meaning of "LOVE" really is, beacause of their seductions.





Gingerbread said:
yeah JLF.. Love have many meanings.. but from what i understand .. it is viewed by devotion and action by a person or something that person do for you. like when you are going thru bad times.. he/she will be there for you no matter what.. and will stick by you and get thru with you.. not many would do?? when they left.. that is not love.... mean they didnt want to go thru all the troubles and being there for you .. too much hassles for them? Love and seduction are two different meanings. as for seduction.. it is the use of sexual desire for other person to get them drawn in their web and do it with them.
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For Better or worse.. thats good word to use.. i so agree with you on that.. :D

yeah i agree with you on everything what you said on wants, desperate for sex or not want to be alone, and not knowing what love means.. its so complicated.. sigh..

i havent found my love yet..mostly cheated on me.. thats not love.. but using me for SEX but i am not going to worry about it cuz i know it will come to me whenever in good time.. :D

JLFWildKat said:
Your very right on all that Gingerbread!! When people say for better or for worse. The don't know &/or understand the true meaning of that. like you said..."like when you are going thru bad times.. he/she will be there for you no matter what.. and will stick by you and get thru with you." But that includes "For Better Or For Worse" Some say they lied when they said that? But why if your truly in "Love"? Then again do they really know what love means? Or is it just infatuation aka puppy love. When ya asked ."too much hassles for them?" Well some, well allot of people can't handle it a few times, allot of times, all the time, etc..So for allot of people, that really look at love just to have someone. But really caught up in seduction. Mostly because for their sexual needs, well not needs, more like "Wants" for allot of people. Or just don't want to be alone & no time to heal if they actually loved that other person. Or some just don't care & say they love the person to just to want to have sex & that's all from one man/woman to another. Sex is not love to me. Making Love when your in love is what "Love" really is. It's so different & means so much more when your "Heart" really is in love & out for that significant other you are making love to. People need to realize & understand more about a devotion of a man/woman. The action yes that person takes in the relationship means so much to the other & a whole lot more if that person is willing to put it all out for that loved one no matter what. Still so many meanings, understandings, misunderstandings on love some people will never know &/or realize what the true meaning of "LOVE" really is, beacause of their seductions.
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JLFWildKat said:
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Welcome! :kiss:

Gingerbread,

You're correct on the part of cheating is not love, most people who cheat are driven by their curiosity to try something different by someone different, but what about the person that they are with? An act of betrayal the ones that they are with is just wrong in my opinion. People who cheat are just lying to the ones that they are with, lying about their true feelings that he/she has for them, and not understanding their level of commitment.

And when a dishonest cheating behavior is pointed out, it is very difficult for that person to accept that he/she is the blame for the fall out of the relationship. They start finding other excuses why the relationship wasn't working out. It's not going to help the person who's been doing all the cheating, stop making the similar mistakes in the future. That's why I always believe this phrase "Once a cheater will always be a cheater".

Unfortunately, if someone is going to cheat, ask yourself one question, is it worth to cheat if you really love someone? ;)
 
Seducation is not a science or art.. at all.. It is in pcyhology categories.. IT IS SICK...
 
Cheri said:
Welcome! :kiss:

Gingerbread,

You're correct on the part of cheating is not love, most people who cheat are driven by their curiosity to try something different by someone different, but what about the person that they are with? An act of betrayal the ones that they are with is just wrong in my opinion. People who cheat are just lying to the ones that they are with, lying about their true feelings that he/she has for them, and not understanding their level of commitment.

And when a dishonest cheating behavior is pointed out, it is very difficult for that person to accept that he/she is the blame for the fall out of the relationship. They start finding other excuses why the relationship wasn't working out. It's not going to help the person who's been doing all the cheating, stop making the similar mistakes in the future. That's why I always believe this phrase "Once a cheater will always be a cheater".

Unfortunately, if someone is going to cheat, ask yourself one question, is it worth to cheat if you really love someone? ;)
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it s not worth to cheat on someone you really love.. u will lose him/her and the relationship will never be the same.. and where is the trust? that would be hard.. with my sons father.. he cheated on me twice.. no more.. how and why he left me is due to peer pressure stupid.. its not worth it.. once a cheater, will always be a cheater.. thats why i wont date a cheater..

u know the saying.. once u set him/her free.. if he/she come back to you.. he/she is yours.. that is hogwash.. i dont believe in that.. i did let my sons father go cuz i am not going to compete with the bitch. let her have him.. but he left her and came back to me.. only that she said she is pregnant.. so he had to go back to her... later found out she lied to get him back in her life.. what good will that do ??? nothing but heartbreak..

now?? he said he is a screw up and sorry that he went back to her beliving her and everything.. he said that i am his true love but its too late.. i wont GO back to him.. NO MORE.. sorry... i told him we always can be best friends.. thats it!!!!! he said thats better than nothing... :)
 
awww Gingerbread I'm sorry to hear :hug: Your right cheating is NOT love..Some people just don't care. Its a shame though when its REAL LOVE it matters the most just for that one person you really truley do love..Yes just be patient, one day love will come to you. Sometimes it seems forever, but well worth it in the end I promise ya that:)




Gingerbread said:
For Better or worse.. thats good word to use.. i so agree with you on that.. :D

yeah i agree with you on everything what you said on wants, desperate for sex or not want to be alone, and not knowing what love means.. its so complicated.. sigh..

i havent found my love yet..mostly cheated on me.. thats not love.. but using me for SEX but i am not going to worry about it cuz i know it will come to me whenever in good time.. :D
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Gingerbread,

I thought I'd put a smile on your face and make your day with this old quote I heard somewhere long ago:

If you love someone, set them free
If they come back to you, they're yours
If they don't, hunt 'em down and kill 'em. :fingersx:

 
Defmusicman said:
Gingerbread,

I thought I'd put a smile on your face and make your day with this old quote I heard somewhere long ago:

If you love someone, set them free
If they come back to you, they're yours
If they don't, hunt 'em down and kill 'em. :fingersx:

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LOL that is good one! hahahah! that sure put a smile on my face. Thanks for sharing the quote! :)
 
Defmusicman said:
Gingerbread,

I thought I'd put a smile on your face and make your day with this old quote I heard somewhere long ago:

If you love someone, set them free
If they come back to you, they're yours
If they don't, hunt 'em down and kill 'em. :fingersx:

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Lol!! Good one! :thumb:
 
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