I understand with lip reading as much as those with cochlear implants understand by listening. Training to understand more speech by lipreading can definately ease your struggles and is a great(or at least acceptable) alternative to CI or for those who can't get or don't want CI. Lipreading is another way to gain access to speech and is not inferior to sign language nor listening, but simply an alternate. Once you master lipreading, it should become as effortless as it's for those with CI to listen. If it's an effort for you, then more training will make it easier! Practice makes perfect!