hmm...bc cigarettes. never heard of it referred to like that. Another poster suggested you not pressure him, or yourself. Might be great advice. Cool it a little, pull back, give him some space. If he cares, it will get better. If he doesn't, oh well, what can you do? I remember when I was younger, always playing games, trying to get them to see things MY way, punishing them for every little thing that pissed me off in every way I could - basically trying to CHANGE them. It never works, and I just got myself all aggravated and frustrated in the process. Not saying that that is what you are doing, but maybe a little space will help for both of you.
