On the training part:
Alot of people today think that they can change a behavior that another has been doing for most of their lives. That is impossible without the person's acceptance that this particular behavior needs to be changed. Otherwise trying to change another is going to drive the other away. And that, IMO, is the contributing factor of why so many people are divorcing.
On the no texting part:
There were many things contributing to a miscommunication on both sides. I hope that they can be talked throught and understood. 
