I think that it would be hard to know is just how mad a guy it about not showing up from a text. Do you think your boyfriend was upset with you or more concerned about you? I would look at this as how he care about you.
At least your boyfriend now know you're your own woman and have a life of your own. I think it great you're this way! I had a bad experience with a hearing boyfriend.
I once lived with a boyfriend that was hearing and he had friend over. I when into the kitchen to do something and when I when back to be with the the guys they both stopped talking right away! I knew right away my boyfriend and his friend thought since I was HOH they could talk about me behind my back. I was very upset and angry at my boyfriend , and he was blowned away that I knew what was going on! I think some hearing people think if you're deaf or HOH that you're also S L O W!
And they're dead WRONG!!