*sigh*
Who knows honestly, this is exactly why I am apprehensive about dating and putting myself out there. Way to many rules do this, don't do that, say this, don't say that. And then after a few months and you are emotionally invested you both stop being Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde in both of you come out and all the things that was a "don't", and it all starts to go down hill because you never knew that person really in the first place. Ideally if I met a guy we would talk and be friends first get to know each other no strings attached and then maybe one day say hey you know I think you are kinda cute ;p.
But this is all IMO
