I have not yet experience with hearie in a relationship. agian I am married already. From what I see your post, I can see that you are giving him some space by not texting him too much which is good. So, maybe I could be wrong since I have not been in there for over 16 yrs! lol I wonder how come you didn't text him for following up on the plan to see if the plan is still on or not? Since he asked you to come over his place therefore i thought it is privilige to check on him to see if the plan is still on. If he had already registered for ASL class for real then he is interested in getting to know you. I guess he is giving you some space not to text you too much too!
I guess you both are too new to each other if i am not mistake that you both may have more time to get to know each other by communicating better.
I could be wrong but he sounds like he's a great guy since he registered for asl class. WOW!
SOrry I am not in this postion to express my experience about deafie and hearie relationship but I can tell you something about guys thing. Guys often not to express or speak his mind when guys are in relationship based on my experiences, as well as i listen to my girlfriends experiences whose their relationships with guys. Guys don't talk much or share their thoughts so deeply at all.
the bottom line, is that you guys need to communicate more like following up on the status of seeing if the plan is still on or doubl check or anything and make it short and sweet in the text message. It should saves your time by getting a confusion signals from him.
good luck
