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Authentic, I have always enjoyed reading of your experiences over the 6 years I have been here on Alldeaf. These new experiences immersing with hearing world too.  While I applaud your bravery in trying out new things, however, the novelty of this new experience will soon wear off and harsh reality will set in.  After a while, your identity as a Deaf person will slowly get swallowed up.  Im not saying about being treated as an equal or as 'one of the boys' here,  Im saying as a deep sense of loss of identity as a person.  Coming from the other end of the yardstick, with me being born deaf in a hearing family, growing up oral in hearing world with no interaction with other D/deaf/HH, until I joined AD in 2009 and started interacting with fellow D/deafies.  I was so relieved and happy to finally find others who understood and had similiar perspectives and experiences.  Until recently (19 months ago) when I had started being unable to go to Deaf socials and events due to a illness.  Now having no others on a regular basis with whom I can identify as  my true self and who I am as a person,  a deep sense of loss and grief has returned.  I would not wish that upon anyone.


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