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    <sheepish grin> Sorry.... <blush> In my world "AD" is Alzheimer's Disease or autosomal dominant. These obviously did not make sense to the post. :aw:
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    Naisho and Jalest; These are very good, thoughtful, lengthy posts. I will need some time to think on them and then respond. I am not ignoring your sharing though, at all. Please do not be hurt. I've read both multiple times. I just need thinking-time. <smile>
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    What is an "AD?" I am also very pleased. Thank you to everyone, your patience and willingness to share are very appreciated.
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    Is this about the doctor thing again? Your daughter, the nurse, is she rich? God bless her, then, because I am not. Not even middle-class yet. Mostly in-debt way over my head and eating a lot more ramen noodles than I would EVER advise a patient is healthy. Please reign in your prejudices...
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    That is a very disturbing story. I am sorry you went through it. Thank you for sharing. I guess it seems to me that if you are deaf/Deaf, then you cannot hear. And maybe, depending on why you are deaf, there might be some other things (balance issues, or genetic syndromes, etc) you cannot...
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    This is interesting. I will think more about it.
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    I appreciate the input. There is a reason I didn't respond before. I didn't want to sound flippant. You see, I have taken them; and I have taught more than a few Disability/Sensitivity training sessions.
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    <smile> Don't I know it! I volunteer weekends at a free clinic. Sometimes, I feel like a computer. Don't smoke. Really. And exercise. And eat better. Next patient. Don't smoke... etc. But the place is crazy packed and from their perspective, they never see the same doc twice. So there...
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    I think it is a great analogy. I think it might even be worse for people losing hearing, maybe. Because they'd be reminded everyday, multiple times a day, that they couldn't hear.... possibly? Sidebar: I feel strangely pleased to have a post from the TURBO gent on my thread!
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    Yes. Mostly hers are frustrations at work these days. Although, before we had a diagnosis, I was in med school. We had these horrible fights because, for my perspective, she wasn't listening! And from hers, well - she didn't hear it. I would say, "But you were standing right there!" And...
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    I think I have somehow caused confusion... again. My spouse is HoH and has progressive loss. It occurs in spurts. Sometimes she will plateau for a while, then get worse again. She has no history in the Deaf culture. I asked her about the postings because she is my interpreter in the...
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    I don't know if I am supposed to respond to this or not. <looking to other poster> Frisky?
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    I'm trying! See how I've been restrained, and encouraging and such? I've only asked one or two questions, since your suggestion.... and I've THOUGHT a hundred at minimum!
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    ROTGL!:laugh2:
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    <chuckle> So, Grayma, are you familiar at all with Objectivism? I ask because I was IN LOVE with Randian philosophy in my early teens. But as I grew up, particularly in the transition from high school to undergrad, began to resign myself to the conclusion that it could never work. Mostly...
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    Um... guys...? So, I am not a "he." I am a "she." It doesn't bother me that you took the most likely conclusion from my spouse being female. I am not offended or anything. And I was inclined not to correct anyone, so as not to 'make waves' again. But my spouse says that I must tell you all...
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    OH MY GOODNESS!! Yes, it is JUST like that ALL THE TIME! Particularly in discussions where the roles are not previously defined. Like, if I am talking to my boss, I am good. If I am talking to a patient, it's good. Because there are roles, you know? And yes, my spouse is frequently my...
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    That's a great point! I wonder something (and don't y'all start yelling again; I am just wondering)... this group of the later-deafened... it would matter when they were deafened, wouldn't it? I mean if someone is deafened in their teens and makes the transition, where they ever really part of...
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    <chuckle> I really did mean Angels, ya'll. King James: " And Jacob was left alone; and there wrestled a man with him until the breaking of the day. And when he saw that he prevailed not against him, he touched the hollow of his thigh; and the hollow of Jacob's thigh was out of joint, as he...
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    Frisky; Thanks for the suggestion! I'll give it a try!
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