I’m not trying to agure with you. I just want to point you while I am respectfully disagreed with you.
Well, the terms pro-choice and pro-life aren't so much directly related to how you feel for yourself, but how you react to others.
For instance, I am pro-choice. I have never had an abortion, and doubt very seriously, based on my personal values, that I would ever make the choice to have one. That is my personal belief for me. I am free to choose what I believe and what I do based on my beliefs.
Yet you are being unfair comparison because you were simply comparing those judicous pro-choicers with extreme pro-lifers. No offense. See far below for my some reasons.
However, I also believe that others have the same right as me to decide for themselves. I do not have the right to tell another woman that she can't have an abortion, if abortion is in line with her personal beliefs and values. If I want the right to choose not to have an abortion, then I also have to give the right to others to choose to have an abortion. This is a decision that every woman must make for herslef, based on her personal values, and her religious beliefs, and her world views.
Pro-choicers do not attempt to force others to believe the same as they do. They do not tell anyone that they must have an abortion. They allow them to make that decision on their own.
You are entitled on your opinion. That’s cool with me. I have not anything to say, throughfully, I strongly agreed. 
Pro-lifers, however, as a group, say that everyone must believe the same as they do. They tell a pregnant woman that she cannot have an abortion. They take choice away. They also have been known to bomb abortion clinics, and take the lives of the employees and pregant women inside all in the name of forcing others to believe the same as they do and act the same as they do. They force all preganant women to carry the pregancy to term, no matter what the circumstances. They believe that they have the right, for instance, to tell a woman that is pregnant from a rape that she MUST give birth to that baby no matter how much psychological damage it may do to her or the child. They try to force everyone into their way.
Okayyyy… No and no… :shakes head:
Because you highly presume pro-lifers will force women to not have an abortion or anything else. NO. That is not true. Some pro-lifers, with their common senses, will not force them but rather to improve a future plan for the best thing to do is preventing a various thing could be happen. Some pro-lifers DO respect their choices, just like I did. I don’t tell women to not have an abortions, I’d rather to speak an opinion, thought, and go on. Look at my thread, did I tell them to do so? No. I assure women to I watch on any prohibited comments (I am sure mods can watch on them too).
As be common sense --
Oftenly, those common pro-lifers are porteyed (sp) as uncaring and inconistent with their beliefs. Anti-abortionists who bomb clinics, anti-abortion politicians who enforce the death penalty, anti-abortionists who threatened people's lives, and a such thing. In my opinion, are NOT pro-life and, actually, that would do much more harm than good to our cause. That’s what uncommon pro-lifers, like me, believe in and they have more similar opinions as mine too.
It is a simple logic.
Well, I am not going to say that all pro-lifers are going outside on the streets to protest abortion everyday (or even want it to be illegal right now). I know my viewpoint (that abortion shouldn't be made illegal right now, but rather working towards a society where abortion isn't "necessary" first) is fairly common in this point.
Besides, I plainly don't trust American pro-life lawmakers to make enough exceptions for women's health, or to make other laws addressing factors that lead women to get abortions (poor access to birth control, economics, discrimination in the workplace, etc etc). I also sick of getting a lot of pro-choicers telling me that this means I'm really pro-choice. No, really, I'm not. I believe that abortion is wrong. This doesn't mean I don't care about women or make me less pro-lifer either. Normally, often "uncommon" pro-lifers really tired of those people telling them you're "not really pro-life" instead of realizing that not everyone fits their stereotypes.
Oh yes, to both pro-choicers and some more extreme pro-lifers, in your post, this appears to be pro-choice rather than pro-life, but it by definition *can't* be pro-choice if you don't think it is acceptable. There you go.
Pro-choicers don't try to force anyone to do anything. They simply give the woman the freedom to decide for herself. They don't tell anyone they have to have an abortion. They don't tell anyone they can't have an abortion. They simply say that everyone is entitled to their values and their beliefs, and they are entitled to make those choices for themselves.
So, you see, it isn't so much about the abortion issue as it is whether you believe that you have the right to force others to believe exactly the same things you do, and have the same reactions as you do, and behave just as you do. You are free to believe that life begins at conception, and base your actions on that belief. Others, however, are also free to believe what they believe, and base their decisions on that, whether they are the same as yours or not. The simple soution is, if you don't believe in abortion, don't have one. But you have no right to make that decision for someone else. If you don't agree with it, fine. That is your choice. But if you wnat to be able to make that choice, then you have to allow others to make that choice, too. Take away the other person's power to choose, and you loose your power to choose, as well.
I agreed everything what you say, Jillio.
