Every time someone has a problem with another person or a group of people, usually that person will run off some where else and vent out their feelings about a situation that may happen in a different forum, yet the person doesn't go up to that person if they had a problem with them in the first place, but runs off to seek attention elsewhere that people can read and start feeling sorry for that person at a different site online....
I believe if a person has a problem with someone or a group of people then that person should talk to them head on, preferably in private instead of drawing more people into it when that person seeks the attention elsewhere by hoping to get a pity party or a certain kind of attention for them in a way that sure doesn't show common sense or maturity on that person's part....
People only know what they see but they do not care enough to seek out the truth when it matters, and when others get involved by giving this person support or advice and yet not knowing the entire story behind the actual situation by jumping in with what little facts are presented or not seeing the facts that do intentionally get held back and wrongly makes that person look innocent and the other person or group guilty or looking bad.....
I kept hearing over and over by the same person that it should be kept between the two of them, and still that person goes around elsewhere speaking about what happened and twisting certain facts or stretching the truth that'll show a more favorable view and side for that person.....
It's hard to change some ways how people deal with issues or problems or to deal with facts that are being twisted all around when having the intent of being courteous and showing much patience to deal with such ways that the other person is showing and doing but it seem that the very same people who once said it should be kept between the two people who are involved in this yet, that person doesn't follow through what is being preached or what is considered having the courtesy and respect for others when a person doesn't hold to oneself the proper level of dealing with issues or problems but instead go behind the backs of those involved and keeps twisting things around some more making the whole situation worse than it should be to begin with....
It makes me sad and upsetting when these actions being done elsewhere and seeing that person around, knowing that a person is being two-faced and not being honest about the whole situation or trying to stir up more drama just to get attention or pity when going elsewhere.....instead of being so obsessive with the past and certain issues rather than letting bygones be bygones, getting over it and move on!!!
Ill-fated facts, words describing a situation that gets twisted all around, seeking attention for something that don't neccessary need to get all fussed over only creates drama that's hurtful and stressful....
I'm not going to " name " who this person who's been doing this to me for so long, but I want to be left alone and that's all I ever asked for.....
I believe if a person has a problem with someone or a group of people then that person should talk to them head on, preferably in private instead of drawing more people into it when that person seeks the attention elsewhere by hoping to get a pity party or a certain kind of attention for them in a way that sure doesn't show common sense or maturity on that person's part....
People only know what they see but they do not care enough to seek out the truth when it matters, and when others get involved by giving this person support or advice and yet not knowing the entire story behind the actual situation by jumping in with what little facts are presented or not seeing the facts that do intentionally get held back and wrongly makes that person look innocent and the other person or group guilty or looking bad.....
I kept hearing over and over by the same person that it should be kept between the two of them, and still that person goes around elsewhere speaking about what happened and twisting certain facts or stretching the truth that'll show a more favorable view and side for that person.....
It's hard to change some ways how people deal with issues or problems or to deal with facts that are being twisted all around when having the intent of being courteous and showing much patience to deal with such ways that the other person is showing and doing but it seem that the very same people who once said it should be kept between the two people who are involved in this yet, that person doesn't follow through what is being preached or what is considered having the courtesy and respect for others when a person doesn't hold to oneself the proper level of dealing with issues or problems but instead go behind the backs of those involved and keeps twisting things around some more making the whole situation worse than it should be to begin with....
It makes me sad and upsetting when these actions being done elsewhere and seeing that person around, knowing that a person is being two-faced and not being honest about the whole situation or trying to stir up more drama just to get attention or pity when going elsewhere.....instead of being so obsessive with the past and certain issues rather than letting bygones be bygones, getting over it and move on!!!
Ill-fated facts, words describing a situation that gets twisted all around, seeking attention for something that don't neccessary need to get all fussed over only creates drama that's hurtful and stressful....
I'm not going to " name " who this person who's been doing this to me for so long, but I want to be left alone and that's all I ever asked for.....
It shows that she stand herself and know what she doing.... See this thread here BECAUSE she knows ADers are members around here instead of run to other forums where ADers are not member.
