Sweetmind said:MY POINT is... Do they really feel sorry for this person? I THINK NOT! I have my right to say it aloud since they dont have any good valid points in my topic. All they bashed and insulted/ namecalled to a direct person who cares so much. While I didnt until you think I m not taking it serious so I had to point that out for a good reasonable strong point of view of what audism people did it all along. And you told lies about us Deaf people and Deaf Community about being against CIers. Of course I am very against CI device on those Deaf children s nonchoice.
They dont feel sorry for those CI failure deaf children at young age and dump them into your trashy cans as far as I can see it very clear. They dont care or dont even help them at all after the parents were lost and did not know what next steps to take.
I have seen some parents who do not sign with their CI failure deaf child and their written english is not very good. This kid is still in Mainstream and use an SEE interpreter in the classroom only. SEE is artificial language that relates to a spoken language. There is something very seriously wrong going on and I am not very comfortable with this sticky situation. It is not a two way street. Also NO information about Deaf community that we can provide them with a very positive outlook that we all are Deaf people of Deaf community that cares about them. The information was hidden for a long, long time and wasn't shared with the parents. We did our job but no one even sees it I dont understand why.Thats why there is too many oralism rules and has to be their way all the time after all it is not the solution yet to avoid making the same mistakes.
Thats why I am here, because I want to help and educate them to get as much information as I can offer them to read with all my heart. Thats their choice to think of their best interest for the deaf child 's sake that comes first.
I know some parents do regret making a mistake and they wont admit because it s very painful for them. That's understandable and I dont blame parents 100 percent. Therefore, they are not the blamed for it 100 percent only since they didnt know any better and realized they got in with the wrong crowd in some ways. I m sure they read my writings that shows I do care for their Deaf children. NO matter what you think of me.
MODERATOR: I feel as though you are trying to control or overpower me and I am somewaht bothered by that. I dont think I should have to agree with everyone here. I think it is ok to agree to disagree. I m here to make the point and how I feel. NO one can stop me after all they dont have any respect for CI failure Deaf children.
I feel like You did not say anything to all the members that were rude/nasty / oppressive/ discriminative towards me. I dont think I should have to refrain, after all I am very strong supporter for Deaf children and Deaf community that saves my life. So I feel as though it s my job to save those Children from harm or the destruction ( for lack of a better word) of their true identity and language that works for both sides of the community that is possible to make the difference.
Let the children have their own Deaf spirit to make them feel good about themselves for being deaf. Deaf children can do anything except hear.
I am not talking about this lady which I havent said anything yet about her.
Im talking about Deaf children going through surgery for that reason..it is the wrong reason, let them have a HA if thats their choice.
Thank you very much!
Sweetmind
I honestly think what you said in here was harsh. This isn't about you. If you have something to vent about CIs then you need to create a thread about how you feel about CIs not go against Lizasoul. Liza is speaking personally about her surgeries. If you got something nice to say then say it. Don't go "bashing" in here. You think the mod is controlling you? no.. The fact is you are harsh in this thread. I'm not trying to be mean but I felt something needed to be said so I said it. You can speak all you want but not in this thread. Hold it off to another new thread.