I hate a cat had a masturbation and also fart with gas lit on the avatars. It finds us a lot of annoying. I do have an open my mind but not on the public avatars. It makes me feel uncomfortable.
I am so glad, these avatars are gone now !
As for signature with memory to honor people who death anniversary as the membership's wishes. It does not bother me at all. As for the sexuality in the avatars or signatures bother me alot. I am very fond of Princess Diana. I used to be put save screen on my computer every year. It is almost 9 years ago. Princess Diana passed away. Now, I stopped to doing this.
Some people put Elvis Presley or famous sport players on their computer. It is their fan. It is their hobby. It does not bother me.
I would feel not comfortable to put a pictures of myself due to keep my low profile. I used to be put a pictures of my two sons in my avatar. Now, I realized, I need to respect my sons's low profile.