Abortion and Adoption stories

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Since many ADers kept to talk about abortion subejct. So I thought it could be nice if an ADer shares with her story to help us understand why abortion have a good reason and adoption, too.

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Yes, all kind of experiences of miscarries is accpetable.

Thank you for sharing with us. :)
 
I suspected that I had a miscarriage in August of 2003 for unknown reason. I recalled that I had severe cramp pain and saw bright red period (or I say, blood?). I had hard time walking with the cramps for a few days. Before, I had a miscarriage, I saw a unborn fetus on the gray background in my dream.

Then, I spoke with my favorite interpreter at work in PA two years ago about it. She said that I might had a miscarriage because she had 11 miscarriages herself in her past. Whoa.

I had no idea about my left tube was partially closed until I just found out from a gynceologist and fertility specialist in PA. They thought I might have cyst there as well. Just tiny ones on my left ovary. I moved to NJ and immediately went to see infertility specialist (NJ insurance covers diagnosis and other fertility services). She took a xray picture of my sexual organs and found my left tube was partially closed. I made an appointment for "poking the tube open" method. Yes, it was painful. Eventually, my left tube finally opened at last. Everything looked so good. No cysts were present. Weird.

If I am pregnant with my partially closed tube, I could have an etopic pregnancy...it is very dangerous. My flashback of my experiences lead me to think that I might had an etopic pregnancy in 2003 (I was not aware of it at that time).
 
I suspected that I had a miscarriage in August of 2003 for unknown reason. I recalled that I had severe cramp pain and saw bright red period (or I say, blood?). I had hard time walking with the cramps for a few days. Before, I had a miscarriage, I saw a unborn fetus on the gray background in my dream.

Then, I spoke with my favorite interpreter at work in PA two years ago about it. She said that I might had a miscarriage because she had 11 miscarriages herself in her past. Whoa.

I had no idea about my left tube was partially closed until I just found out from a gynceologist and fertility specialist in PA. They thought I might have cyst there as well. Just tiny ones on my left ovary. I moved to NJ and immediately went to see infertility specialist (NJ insurance covers diagnosis and other fertility services). She took a xray picture of my sexual organs and found my left tube was partially closed. I made an appointment for "poking the tube open" method. Yes, it was painful. Eventually, my left tube finally opened at last. Everything looked so good. No cysts were present. Weird.

If I am pregnant with my partially closed tube, I could have an etopic pregnancy...it is very dangerous. My flashback of my experiences lead me to think that I might had an etopic pregnancy in 2003 (I was not aware of it at that time).
11 miscarriages is too much. Does she have a history of drugs or alcohol?

I knew a gal at RIT who was a drug addict and an alcoholic. She would get drunk and stoned all the time and then have sex with guys in the process. She rarely remembered who she had sex with and often got pregnant from them. She would later find out that she was pregnant and instead of facing it or having an abortion, she would drink and do drugs more until a forced miscarriage occurred. I lost count after 5 or 7 in 2 years. :roll:
 
11 miscarriages is too much. Does she have a history of drugs or alcohol?

I knew a gal at RIT who was a drug addict and an alcoholic. She would get drunk and stoned all the time and then have sex with guys in the process. She rarely remembered who she had sex with and often got pregnant from them. She would later find out that she was pregnant and instead of facing it or having an abortion, she would drink and do drugs more until a forced miscarriage occurred. I lost count after 5 or 7 in 2 years. :roll:

No, my interpreter was able to get pregnant easily, but her cervix could not hold the baby any longer. During her time, no technology helped her to hold the baby inside. Today's technology can help her (with shots) to prevent any miscarriages (if she was 10 years younger). She never uses drugs or alcohol. Look at Courtney Cox Arquette, for example. She has a similar problem as my interpreter has had. She is 48, so her period stopped a few years ago. She is now a legal guardian of the 16 years old gal though.
 
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